Thursday, March 17, 2011

The Magic of Love is Lost ! ! !


How does it happen?
Why does it happen?
Why does it happen to us?

Each day millions of people are searching for a partner to experience that special loving feeling.

Each year, millions of couples fall in love and then get separated as they have lost that loving feeling.

People who are married, only 50 percent stay together & another 50 percent are not satisfied in their life, but still stay together out of obligations.

To answer these questions, we should consider few people who are able to grow in love. Yes, it does happen when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences, then love has a chance to blossom.

Men and women are not aware of that they have different emotional needs. Men typically give in relationships what men want, while women give what women want. Each mistakenly assumes that the other has the same needs and desires. As a result they both end up dissatisfied.

Both men and women feel they give and give but do not get back. They feel their love isUnacknowledged and unappreciated. The truth is they are both giving love but not in the desired manner.

Men mistakenly expect women to think, communicate, and react the way men do; women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate, and respond the way women do.

We have forgotten that men and women are supposed to be different. As a result, our relationships are filled with unnecessary friction and conflict.

Clearly recognizing and respecting these differences dramatically reduce confusion. And, more important, we can learn how to best love and support the people we care about.

Give space to ur partners & trust them...

Love is magical, and it can last, if we remember our differences.


Bharathi...


P.S: few lines are quoted from Book



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