Thursday, December 29, 2011

“Public Display of Affection” How much is really too much?

A Scene in bus @ 11. PM

Mr & Mrs. X boarded the bus, occupied their reserved seats.

Mrs. X : Hey push the seat back and be comfortable, otherwise u may get back pain jaanu

Mr.X: Turn off the AC, already u have cold... it may get worst again

Mrs.X: Have a sip of water (forcibly she pours water in to his mouth  and wipes his lips with her dhupatta )

Mr.X grabs her hand and keeps her palm under his ears,

Mrs X smiles and gently pampers him, giving slight massages on his head with her finger tips.

Bus starts….

Both of them use one blanket to cover (though two were available...) started giggling and pampering each other… (May be they thought it’s their bedroom)

I understand public display of affection is common, but how much it should be? & what about people around them?

Well the point is how much is too much?

Many people think public display of affection is sweet and a form of caring, but I want to tell you again it’s fine as long as you won’t make people around you uncomfortable. If you are doing so, it means you are doing something wrong in public.

People nobody will say Awww!!! They are cool, that’s warm... They say "AHHHH Yuck"!!!

People so use ur brains and don’t have pleasure at cost of someone’s inconvenience 
P.S: this is my opinion/view ,i am not trying to compel anyone to hate it... i don't mind if u hate me for hating PDA

P.S: one more thing, i Hate people who use their flashy mobile phones in buses after lights are turned off... and I hate your weird ring tones and loud voices too


Tuesday, November 29, 2011

It's not meant to Happen that way...

He walked into her room, she was standing in a corner, and he glanced at her. She looked like a nicely engraved sculpture; her skin was gold. She smiled at him with her ivory teeth.

He walked close to her and looked into her sparkling eyes. His provocative gaze created feeling of love that is real. Her presence made him forget the worldly fears. She drifted into his arms and her world seemed to be perfect and secure.

His hands flowed over her and they were lost in the mystical ride, burnt the flames of desire, love, & lust.

She looked at him so pure, so sad and felt he is one who holds her hand in all the times and will stand by her forever. He smiled at her and she looked as the most beautiful thing alive on earth.

He warmly whispered in her ears ” for 100 pieces of silver” will you sleep with me again?

A tear rolled, she wiped the tear escaping with the curve of lips, heard the gentle whisper from her heart, and realized she is the Girl with Price Tag; all her dreams were shattered, helpless to say it out.

She smiled and said "for 150 pieces"

Deep inside, she cried every second of  that night, she told herself" i know i cant have you, but still i  give my heart away.

In her world " its not meant to happen that way"

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Living my life, without knowing your existence

I was living my life, without knowing your existence, suddenly, you came in to my life like an angel, Guess what it meant to be for me??

You have changed my life’s outlook. Made many things in my life simple, sweet, and reachable

You are there with me, when I walked alone in dark nights

You brought my family and pals closer to my heart and made long distances short

Your are the one who heard my thousand smiles and saw thousand tears

You made my misunderstandings with loved ones vanish

You made me to show how I feel inside

You have all my memories & secrets with you

You bring breaking news

Every moment I spent with you, it is a moment to cherish

You are the only one who knows “Real Me”

Tears rolled from my eyes when I lost you yesterday, 

when I was in grief, god saved me and got you back to me.

I Love you my dear Sony Ericsson “XPERIA”. 

I thought I lost you forever, but we r meant to be together

Welcome back to me My baby :)


Thursday, October 27, 2011

Who am I?

An innocent child who tries to speak, walk? Or teenager who seeks and moves on...

A little gal who sacrifices her toys for her brother or a girl who sacrifices her love for her parents.

Dad princess??? Or a Lover who gave up on love and kept distracting herself

A small baby holding her dad’s little finger? Or a teenager who moves ahead alone?

A stubborn kid who troubles her parents? Or a mother who bear labour pain. 



Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Sixteen Silly Worries


1. About silly fights with dear ones which become serious

2. Big dreams, but lazy to wake up and realize

3. When boredom makes days tough

4. Sleepy afternoons at office

5. Feeling hungry at Midnight when nothing is available at home

6. Broken hearts due to silly disappointments

7. Cell phone bills

8. Unwanted office deadlines

9. New Clothes become too tight

10. When you don’t find clothes of your size in Sale

11. Tanning due to sun

12. When long lasting lip gloss won’t last long

13. Grey hair & Hair fall

14. When I don’t get tickets for the movie on weekend

15. Rains.... when wearing new footwear

16. Finding yourself alone in your room in the middle of night


P.S: I was waiting for the clock to click 6.00 Pm,  so that i can leave my office, and has stopped working,So thought of utilizing my office time effectively :P



Image source: http://www.dreamstime.com

Monday, October 10, 2011

In Memoriam :Steve Jobs (1955 - 2011)

Don’t let trivial matters of life hold you back, your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's Life. “– Steve Jobs

IPod, a must have music gadget introduced me its creator “Steve Jobs,” a creative genius who made difference to the whole world technology. People are fan for his inventions or his values or the way he takes/lead his life. I was very much inspired by his outstanding speech 'How to live before you die' at Stanford University on 12 June, 2005.

Steve  born to an unwed mother, adopted by parents who didn’t even go to college, got fired from his own company, and fought with worst possible form of cancer, despite of all ups & downs in his life, he made remarkable place in the world of technology with his awesome inventions.

“Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life” - Steve Jobs

He never thought small or big, but just lived life with pride for all decisions he made. I bow for his passion in life.

Once Steve said “I would trade all of my technology for an afternoon with Socrates”, shows his simplicity as a human being 
Steve Jobs may not be with us in physical form, but his inventions and the values stay with us forever. He is a person who taught the world about the burning desire and the commitment to achieve it.

He will  remain in our  hearts and will be alive in form of his achievements.
We miss you "Mr Steve Jobs"

Rest in peace

Monday, October 3, 2011

Telangana for Dummies

Andhra Pradesh (AP) is the fifth largest State in the Indian Union having an area of 2,75,000 sq. km.sq. kms and a population of about 84,655,533. Andhra Pradesh consists of three distinct regions, namely, Andhra, Rayalaseema, and Telangana. Andhra and Rayalaseema were part of Madras province of the British Empire. For approximately 400 years, Telangana was part of Hyderabad State, an independent kingdom ruled by Muslim Qutub Shahi and Nizam dynasties.
In 1953, Andhra and Rayalaseema were separated from Madras State. Later Andhra merged with Telangana in 1956, based on their linguistic and national affinity, to form the present state of Andhra Pradesh, Hyderabad as the capital city. However, this has resulted in two major agitations: Jai Telangana in 1969 and Jai Andhra 1972, both for separate states.
Why Telangana Movement started?

Proponents of a separate Telangana state feel that the agreements, plans, and assurances from the legislature and Lok Sabha over the last fifty years have not been honoured, and as a consequence Telangana has remained neglected, exploited, and backward, perceived injustices in the distribution of water, budget allocations, and jobs.
They allege that the experiment to remain as one state has proven to be a futile exercise and that separation is the best solution


Chronology of Telangana Agitation

1969 Telangana Agitation

In the years after the formation of Andhra Pradesh state, people of Telangana expressed dissatisfaction over how the agreements and guarantees were implemented. All the Andhra employees who migrated to capital city in 1956 will become local in 1969 after 12years of residence per mulki rules. One section of students (which appeared dominant) want separate state other want implementation of safeguards.

1972 Jai Andhra Movement

Under the Mulki rules in force at the time, anyone who had lived in Hyderabad for 15 years was considered a local, and was thus eligible for certain government posts. When the Supreme Court upheld the Mulki rules at the end of 1972, the Jai Andhra movement, with the aim of re-forming a separate state of Andhra, was started in Coastal Andhra and Rayalaseema regions.P. V. Narasimha Rao resigned as Chief minister of Andhra Pradesh on 10 January 1973, and President's rule was declared in the state.

Six-Point Formula of 1973
On 21 September 1973, a political settlement was reached with the Government of India with a Six-Point Formula. It was agreed upon by the leaders of the two regions to prevent any recurrence of such agitations in the future.

Movement in 1990–2004


In 1997, the state unit of the BJP passed a resolution seeking a separate Telangana. It could not create a separate Telangana state because of lack of consensus with the Telugu Desam Party, which extended outside support to its government at the centre.

A new party called Telangana Rashtra Samithi (TRS), led by Kalvakuntla Chandrashekar Rao (KCR), was formed in 2001 with the single-point agenda of creating a separate Telangana state with Hyderabad as its capital

2004 to 2009

For the 2004 Assembly and Parliament elections, the Congress party and the TRS had an electoral alliance in the Telangana region that promised a separate Telangana State. Congress came to power in the state and formed a coalition government at the centre; TRS joined the coalition and was successful in making a separate Telangana state a part of the common minimum programme of the coalition government. In April 2006 the then Chief Minister Y. S. Rajasekhara Reddy categorically said that the state would remain united. In September 2006 TRS withdrew support from the coalition government because of their failure to deliver on their promise to create an independent Telangana state

In June 2008, Tulla Devender Goud, a politbureau member and Deputy Leader of the Telugu Desam Party, resigned from the party, saying he would devote his time and energy to the formation of a separate Teelangana state. In July 2008, Goud and other leaders such as E. Peddi Reddy formed a new party called Nava Telangana Praja Party (NTPP)

On 9 October 2008 the TDP announced its support for the creation of Telangana.

Konda Laxman Bapuji of the Nava Telangana Party announced that "We solemnly declare statehood for Telangana on November 2, 2008."

In the year 2009

In February 2009 the state government declared that it had no objection, in principle, to the formation of separate Telangana and that the time had come to move forward decisively on this issue. To resolve related issues, the government constituted a joint house committee.

In the lead-up to the 2009 General Elections in India, all the major parties in Andhra Pradesh supported the formation of Telangana. The Telugu Desam Party promised to work for Telangana statehood. Telangana Rashtra Samithi (TRS) joined a Mahakutami ("grand alliance") with the TDP and other parties to defeat the Congress party for denying statehood

The Praja Rajyam Party (PRP), founded in August 2008 by film star Chiranjeevi, pledged support to Telangana statehood if it becomes inevitableThe Nava Telangana Praja Party announced that it would merge with PRP after it concluded that there was not enough political space for two sub-regional Telangana parties that had Telananga statehood as their main agenda, Devender Goud later quit PRP and returned to the Telugu Desam Party.

In the 2009 elections, Congress returned to power both at the center and state.

On 29 November 2009 TRS president K. Chandrashekar Rao (KCR) started a fast-unto-death, demanding that the Congress party introduce a Telangana bill in Parliament. The apparent decline in KCR's health led to a sense of urgency to the issue

On 12 February, the central government announced Terms of Reference to the Srikrishna Committee, with a deadline of 31 December 2010. The SKC compiled information which indicates that between 30 November 2009 and 27 February 2010, 313 Telangana people committed suicide over the delay in the formation of Telangana state

In a report submitted to the Srikrishna Committee, ministers from Seema-Andhra region stated that the demand for separate Telangana under grounds of self-respect and self-rule is anti-national and will sow seeds for disintegration of the country. They said that all the districts of Telangana were well-developed between 1992 and the present. This statement evoked strong protests in Telangana and demands for the dismissal of those ministers. In a report dated 9 August, the central government declared 13 districts in AP are backward, and 9 out of 10 Telangana districts are backward

On 16 December 2010, two weeks before the deadline for the submission of the Srikrishna report, TRS organized a public meeting in Warangal. It was estimated that 1.2 to 1.5 million people attended this meeting.

The Srikrishna committee on Telangana submitted its report in two volumes to the Home Ministry of India on 30 December 2010. The home Ministry announced that it would hold talks with all eight recognized political parties of Andhra Pradesh on 6 January 2011 and make the report public on the same day.

Telangana Non-cooperation movement and Million march of Feb-March 2011

On February 17, 2011 noncooperation movement was started and it last for 16days which was participated by 300,000 government employees and caused Rs 8 billion per day in revenue to Government

In February and March, Assembly session was boycotted for weeks and Parliament session was disrupted for several days by Telangana representatives.

Miilion March was organized by Telangana JAC in Hyderabad on March 10, 2010.

In a unique form of protest, people from all walks of life came together on Hyderabad's roads on June 19 on a call given by Telangana JAC for 'vanta vaarpu' or a cook-and-eat agitation to demand a separate Telangana state. While various groups made arrangements on a massive scale for cooking food on roads, families set up small kitchens with gas stoves.

Resignations of almost all Telangana representatives

On July 4, 2011 as many as 81 of 119 Telangana MLAs in the state, 12 out of 15 Telangana ministers in state.
On July 5, MLAs from TRS(11), BJP(2), CPI(4), Congress(2) resigned took the total of Telangna MLAs resigned to 100 out of 118(1 vacant). As part of the 2 day bandh declared by the JAC in Telangana region, agitators stopped IT professionals from attending work in some instances.

On July 11, 200 Telangana students started indefinite hunger strike protesting the delay in Telangana state formation. On July 13 and 14, resigned Telangana Congress representatives(MPs, MLAs, MLCs) were on hunger strike due to their party's central leadership's silence on Telangana issue even after their resignations

All People's strike

On September 12, 2011, a day before Sakala Janula Samme(All people's strike), TRS organized a public meeting in Karimnagar which was attended by Telangana JAC leaders, BJP and New Democracy party leaders. Over million people attended the meeting.
On September 19, state road transport corporation employees and state electricity board employees in Telangana joined the indefinite strike.

Virtually all sections of people joined this strike. On September 30, as the strike enter 18th day, even while Congress central leadership meeting several Telangana congress leaders, JAC called a bundh in Hyderabad city

KCR to 'Fast Unto Death' from October 2nd,2011

P.S:“What is Telangana movement?” a question raised by my neighbor( who is American) this morning provoked me to write this blog post. I have complied this post from various internet sources, kindly if there are any errors you are free to correct them.


Compiled from
http://ourtelangana.com/content/telangana-movement-history 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1969_Telangana_Agitation
http://ourtelangana.com/content/telangana-movement
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Telangana_movement
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Telangana



Friday, September 30, 2011

I want to be a thief


It was busy day at office, loads of work, quick deadlines... made day much more hectic than it was.. Thank god I could overcome all these issues and met   the deadlines.. Before leaving office, I called him and said that we will have dinner together. He is also in the same situation and he was okay to meet for dinner.It was so nice to relax after a hectic day,nice restaurant, yummy food, awesome friend to give company.We just started sharing about our daily routine "what happened at office?  blah blah blah.. "

Things were fine till here, I am good at observing people, though he was sitting in front of me/ with me, he was not much in to me, I could sense his mind is restless and wandering somewhere, mails, calls, text messages kept him busy across dinner table too. I tried to bring back his concentration, but I have failed... :(((

So I want to be a thief so that, 

I can steal his mind, erase all the restlessness and every ending thoughts

I can steal his heart, fill love for me

I can steal his eyes, so that he can keep off his eyes from mobile

I can steal his lips, keep them away from cigarette 

At least then, he realises that I am there with him, and we are together just to relax and have to be away from our daily tensions.

P.S: This is outcome of my random thought process



Sunday, September 18, 2011

I will never make him wait!!!


That was a lazy Sunday, usually I don’t sleep in the afternoons, but I was in very deep sleep on that Sunday. It was 6 PM, I was in deep Trans of my sleep, and suddenly my phone rang, with half opened eyes I looked at the number and it was my dear friend 

He: hey whats up?

Me: I am sleeping.

He: call me once u get up, we will go out

Me: okay 

After 20 min ( I was still on bed) Phone rings.. the same person

He: got ready?

Me: ya 5 min I will be down

After 10 min, he reached my place, and I was still getting ready, finally I made him to wait for 15 min.

I reached the gate and saw a guy waiting, I am sure its him. I saw him crushing the cigarette on road, exhaling the final puff smoke. while nearing him, his perfume reached me wafting through. i could make out that he was waiting for 15 minutes. and had 3 cigarettes. 

I sat behind him, and started thinking

"A single cigarette can reduce the blood supply to your skin for over an hour."
"On average, each cigarette shortens a smoker's life by around 11 minutes."
"Over 80 cancer giving ingredients are present in a single Cigarette.” 

when I calculated, I have figured out he lost 33 minutes of his life waiting for me. 

I know he never quits smoking and i never wanted to be a reason for him to lit a cigarette .

I have decided that i will never make him wait..

p.s: If you think smoking is cool and shows ur attitude i am sorry. 

Here are your Wrong perceptions:
 Smoking looks cool and Cigarettes are identified as stress busters.
Sporting a lighted cigarette between ur fingers or lips is  real attitude. 
You look manly ( the fact is foul smell in the mouth and clothes is not liked by majority of females)

Image courtesy: http://www.livingworld.net



Thursday, September 15, 2011

Say "NO" to division based on Caste

In ancient days, caste system is just a division of labor based on their occupation/skill levels. It is always been a part of Indian Culture. Can we imagine in a country every one being a doctor or an engineer? No we cannot survive that way. We divide among ourselves based on caste feeling one caste is superior to other. Have we ever thought that in this globalization we are going backward?

Yes, if we divide our society based on caste we travel back, since my childhood I am studying India is a developing county and I am sure my children will also read the same. Then when are we going to declare India as a developed country.

Some divide people for their selfish needs, some for just creating a voter bank. And what are we doing about it? Are we not mingling with people based on caste?

After independence, Indians had pledge that we shall create a secular society and it was promised in our Indian constitution. But we violated and amended the constitution to uplift the weaker sections.

Today we stand here, dividing society in to Hindu, Muslim, SC, ST, OC,OBC if possible new reservation types. Are these worth doing? We are just creating a misunderstanding and hatred among ourselves. To my understanding there are two classes in our system i.e Haves and Have-nots.

Adding to this, our census 2011 based on caste. I guess this is the evil act of our politicians to check their voter bank and definitely not to uplift the economically deprived.

If our politicians or Government want to uplift the masses, why don’t they understand that education alone can remove poverty, educated people, provide basic amenities.

Dear All Indians,

Remember “United we stand, Divided we fall”. India is a democratic country, lets enjoy our freedom and let’s not be slaves to these discrimination. we all are humans, fight for human rights. Let us work towards creating a new society and dream of developed India. Castes in a system are like different parts of our body which perform different functions; do we discriminate our organs and neglect them?? No so Why to discriminate people?

Break the caste barriers. Unless we unite we cant make difference and revolt back on the evil things in the society like corruption, sick politicians, poor governance.

We educated, can bring change in the society and can empower the weak. Join hands together and lets revolt back…. 

Saturday, September 3, 2011

It's been 10 years...


My Dear Lovely Friend,

I am just sitting here and writing to you to say these unspoken words which come right from my heart...
 
You were always nice to me, helped me by fixing my problems, you never left me behind when I was in need of you.

You made me laugh and let me cry and used to say u will miss me if I go

You could never know how you have changed my life.

Thanks you for listening to my thoughts n sharing my feelings. 
 
I know I will never be able to reach you, Hug u tight, and say thank you.
 
Today, I want to yell that I Miss you like hell... 
 
Love you lots Tasleema
 

P.s: This is written for my best fren who has passed away 10 years back


Thursday, August 25, 2011

Why "No Traffic Rules" to Politicians/VIPs?

Many times I felt weird about this issue; I feel it should be a serious concern for us.

Why do they block the traffic whenever a VIP or Politician passes through??”

I understand Security is important for them. But is it at the cost of common man convenience & time? Everyone are busy, every ones time is precious in their own way?

Why do they have to barricade the roads? Do they assume people are to be restrained?

My only question is “Why a politician or VIP should be kept away from the traffic?"

Have you ever seen a traffic cop making way for an Ambulance? NO... At least me, has never seen? So what is the priority here? Do you think is this right system?

Dear Cops,

Allow our so called leaders/VIPS etc to experience the traffic and the real world rather speaking nonsense sitting in AC rooms and traveling in AC cars.

They are also the part of Indian society, laws, rules and regulations apply to them and they should be imposed on them.Allow them to follow the traffic rules... 
In fact each and every law that is applicable to the common man.

Dear Citizens,

Let’s not be the mere spectators, just cursing them (in fact like me who is venting anger through a blog). I feel we should protest and raise voice against these situations.

After all, we gave them power, not to destroy us but to take care of us. This in fact is not happening.


This is what I feel at this moment. I welcome your comments/ suggestions.


Wednesday, August 24, 2011

I never wanted this to Happen...

As we both were out of town, we could meet each other for a week. After coming back to town, we both decided to meet after office. I was waiting at my apartment gate, he came, and we both drove towards our regular spot i.e CCD @ banjara hills.

It was so nice to see him after quite long time; we just started talking casual things. I was pulling him, he was trying to drive safe in the heavy traffic, and we somehow could swim fast in  the heavy traffic. 
We reached city centre signal, when we took left turn a speed car passed by has hit us, we fell down, injured so much,I can sense a big injury on my head, blood oozing out. I could see him bleeding badly and people helping him to take out the bike. Both of us were screaming loud because of pain. Slowly my vision blurred, I couldn’t hear anythg more, my eyes closed…

I opened my eyes with great pain, my body ached, my back pained like hell, I turned to left saw him in full bandages, on bed unconsciously, he had big injury on head, broken hip, fracture on left leg, I shouted what the hell???? tears rolled from my eyes, I recalled what he said over chat this afternoon, he told he can’t meet me today, but I forced him to meet and the day has ended like this, I just cried a loud for not listening his words, and for being insane…

I was crying, but some sound was disturbing me, I tried to figure out, My Phone unveiled the mystery by the alarm sound. , I just closed my eyes, touched my cheeks to check the tears, ya I found few.. but when I opened eyes, I am in my bedroom alone.. 
Then what was that I saw?? Just a dream????  I giggled just a dream? dream? Woooo.ooooo. nothing Happened.. in fact Nothing happened....That’s just a nightmare.. just a nightmare.. He is safe.. safe.. safe.. all happies.. Just smiled to myself thinking that he must be sleeping now.. I got down from bed n moved towards loo.. 
I seriously never want this to Happen..

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

May I have a Minute ?

It was 1.00 AM , old Sarada was still awake, looking at the door eagerly. Suddenly, a taxi arrives. Elated Sarada runs towards the gate, paused for a moment, her eyes were filled with tears to see her son after 10 years.

She hugs her son and invites them into the house. Sarada is a widow, who is a retired teacher. She struggled a lot to bring up her son, gave him good education. He is a Green card holder settled in USA and came to India to see his mother after 10 years.
In the morning, Sarada takes her family to the temple. She proudly introduces her son to the priest and the known people in the temple. Everyone start praising her son, and reveals that he has given a high donation to the old age home which the Government has never taken care of . Sarada heart filled with contentment and was happy to see her  son is helping the needy.

After lunch, they start sharing the things. In the middle of conversation her son says:

“Mother, If you come and stay with us in America, as you know that  me and my wife are busy with our work and we could not be able to give proper attention towards  you. So, we both have discussed and finalized that we will join you in a old age home.So that you can have comfortable life and that is the reason  I have donated a high amount to the old age home.”

After hearing the reason, Sarada heart breaks and her eyes just start flooding with tears…

With no words left to speak, Sarada ask her son to leave the house

NOTE TO ALL

You & me, everyone attains old age, so don’t think that your parents are burden for you. They cared for you ever since you entered this world. They have shown always selfless love on you and you don’t be selfish now. They have sacrificed many things in their life to see you as what you are today in this society.

Remember Your happiness lies in friends, parties, pubs, shopping etc but you are the only happiness to your parents

Be humble to them, take care of them, and don’t leave them when they need you most. All they need is your love and affection

Take a pledge today that “You will serve your old parents in the BEST way you can and will never hurt them in any way, no matter how tough it may be.” 


"Stop putting your parents in Old Age Homes"



Saturday, July 23, 2011

Why I prefer to be single???

No need to deal with irritating in –laws 

I don’t need to remember any anniversaries, extra birthdays, and do extra family shopping

I can just be myself and no need to change my life for someone’s priorities

I can move on globe wherever  I want

I deal with my own insecurities, and have to fix my own disasters of life

I don’t have to live with a person who won’t accept me as i am

I don’t need to worry whether the other person is true to me or not

I can focus more on career & my dreams and weekends are completely mine

I can meditate and have time for my own

The money whatever i earn, will spend on my own things and no need to share my Debit/Credit cards

I want to say goodbye to the trends of dumping & being dumped. and want to stay "SINGLE"

"Being Single" may look like I am selfish and  give priority for my own happiness, but its not true.. sharing should be done when it is worth...

I was born alone and will die alone, so i just don't want to fool myself thinking about love and trust of someone which could be an illusion or a nightmare... I think love is  extinct today. In this world i just trust myself and i am happy and peaceful . I don't expect, so i don't get hurt and i believe it is the best way to live life


P.S: This is my mind status at this point of time. i am not discouraging people who are getting married. 

To all the Respectful Men !!

Its time to learn something about Men...

Who is a boy / man ?


A boy/man is one of the most beautiful creations of God.

He starts compromising at very tender age. He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

Later he sacrifices his love for just a smile on his parents face. He sacrifices his love for his wife and children by working late nights.

He builds their future by taking loans from banks and then repaying them for the life time. Thus he sacrifices full youth for his wife and children without any complain.

He struggles a lot but still has to hear the music (scolding) of Mother, wife and his boss.
Yet every mother, wife and boss tries to have control over him.

Finally his life ends up by compromising for others happiness. He is that creature of God who no one can compete with.

Respect every boy/man in your life. You will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Just extend your hand when he needs it and you shall receive twice fold love from him.

Enough Of Girls /women / Wife Emotional Mails Now… Boys also Have Emotions and Respect.



P.S: It is a forward mail, felt worth blogging.. so here it is.. 

Thursday, July 21, 2011

WHY???


Why people spend their time in trying to find out why others are happy ?

Why people can forget all the nice things and just remember one mistake ?

Why people lead their life as if world’s burden is on their head ?

Why people can’t answer when asked,”what’s wrong?”

Why people stop living life in their own way and start complaining that “you have changed” ?

Why people don’t have sense of style ?

Why do people hurt others?

Why do people cheat each other?


Friday, July 1, 2011

Are you stupid or trying to commit slow suicide? ??

My Dear Friends,

Today I am here to introduce a very good friend of many of us:

He is a friend, whom you want to keep all the time.

He controls you totally

Whenever you are in movie or a closed hall, he asks you to take him out so that he can enjoy the surrounding.

Irrespective of place and time he asks you to pick him up.

He has a peculiar odor.

He has 81 Cancer Causing Chemicals Plus 4,000 Extra Chemicals

He sits on your chest and makes your breath difficult

He helps colds and flu catch you easily.

He is expected to kill up to 2.5 million middle-aged humans.

He causes cancers, Heart disease , Stained teeth, fingers, and hair, Asthma , Gastrointestinal difficulties, Headaches, Leukoflakia (smoker's patch), Insomnia , Heart murmur Buerger's disease (inflammation of blood vessel linings) , Shortness of breath, Arthritis , Smoker's hack, Nervousness Wrinkles and premature aging. 

When he no longer wishes to have your company Instead of letting you go your separate ways, he decides to kill you.

Well, this is the story of your "friend," your cigarette. No real friend would do all this to you. Cigarettes are the worst possible enemies you ever had. They are expensive, addictive, socially unacceptable, and deadly.consider all these and Never take another Puff

Breathe deep, hug hard, and live long!


If you are a smoker, quit ! If you are a not a smoker, get people to quit! Talk to a friend, your spouse, a smoker! Help Them


Its never late make you choice and  choose..


Which Battle Is Easier?

The battle to quit smoking today
or the battle to save a diseased
or dying body tomorrow?


Still you want to smoke? Here is the badge for you from me


With Love
Bharathi

P.S: Compiled from http://whyquit.com

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Life - A Journey through the Rainbow

 
Our life is being experienced by Feelings and Emotions. They are the driving power of human life. With these we distinguish us from computers and robots or any other machines. Without emotions and feelings there is no "Meaning to life".

Have you ever noticed we use colors to express how we are feeling?


                                                             Monday Blues…
Looking at him “she turned to pink”
"Am I red or what?"
May be I was singing the blues or something?

Blue, green, red, yellow, purple...they're all colors that express emotions of a person and are associated with a color and vice-versa. It is believed that the color of a person's aura reflects his/her emotions at a certain time.

The color - emotion relations are:

Red is the color of fire and blood, so it is associated with energy, war, danger, strength, power, determination as well as passion, desire, and love.

Orange combines the energy of red and the happiness of yellow. It is associated with joy, sunshine, and the tropics. Orange represents enthusiasm, fascination, happiness, creativity, determination, attraction, success, encouragement, and stimulation.

Yellow is the color of sunshine. It's associated with joy, happiness, intellect, and energy.

Green is the color of nature. It symbolizes growth, harmony, freshness, and fertility. Green has strong emotional correspondence with safety. 

Blue color of the sky and sea. It is often associated with depth and stability. It symbolizes trust, loyalty, wisdom, confidence, intelligence, faith, truth, and heaven.

Purple combines the stability of blue and the energy of red. Purple is associated with royalty. It symbolizes power, nobility, luxury, and ambition. It conveys wealth and extravagance. Purple is associated with wisdom, dignity, independence, creativity, mystery, and magic.

White is associated with light, goodness, innocence, purity, and virginity. It is considered to be the color of perfection.

Black is associated with power, elegance, formality, death, evil, and mystery.

"Life is not just black & white...it is like a Rainbow &  You need both the sun and the rain to make its colors appear.”

Life is Beautiful, its worth enjoying each moment of it!! :)


P.S: Internet is the source for color-emotions

Friday, June 17, 2011

I Like it When,,,

 
Life stupid questions doesn’t bother me

I hardly think about tomorrow

I don’t ponder the gloom of my life

I will be awake, when rest of world sleep

I smile foolishly at the things which made me sad

I understand my flaws and correct them

I support my laziness by calling it as “being in peace.”

I am least bothered about others

Get lots of love when least expected....

Cud be more but i stop it here, as I have to get back to work.. 


Friday, June 10, 2011

A guy at traffic signal..

Hey you??

Yeahh you man i'm talking to you.. (Don’t look around)

Ufff.. Stop looking into the car mirror.. No?

Now.. What’s wrong with your hair? Damn so bad messy spikes.. Yuck!!!..

Pheww what’s on your face? Applied a lot of sunscreen? Ha ha ha… you look horrible…


Oh I didn’t not observe low waist jeans?? Y the hell you need them? This is damn sick…

Oh just wait wait what are those 100 bands on your wrist? Oh are you trying to be fast track model?

Whatever it may be..I just called you to say that “check you have dropped your wallet on road “

Btw nice tattoo :)

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Love & Marriage

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not  as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... You look for one that is just nice, and you  have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... This is marriage."

"Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it"

Source: Theworldunited.org

 

Friday, June 3, 2011

I want to Get rid Of...

  • Habit of Biting Nails
  • Using the word F^*K and S*&;T
  • Reading book just after getting up from the sleep in the morning.
  • Being sweet & kind  to everyone
  • Believing people fast
  • Aerated drinks
  • Skipping breakfast
  • Laziness
  • Being loud in words
  • Being Nostalgic and Emotional
  • Reaching Office late
  • Having Mirchi Bajji everyday :P
  • Eating cheese & nuts.. (since i am allergic to them)
I want to Change.. Change is Good 

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Today, 10 reasons to feel happy about :-)

  1. Well Yesterday night I have slept very late, but I got up very early .
  2. Done some art work in the morning (still incomplete.. but felt very nice)
  3. Have been to a temple in the morning ( love that feeling..)
  4. My cooking skills have improved a lot
  5. I am able to drive in Heavy traffic (La la laaaa .. that's awesome isn't)
  6. First time in my life, I have been to a  movie night show with friends :P not to be revealed at home  ;)
  7. Got appreciations from Boss
  8. Nice weather in Hyderabad.
  9. Excelling in MS Excel :P
  10. Finally, I am healthy, strong and blessed to be alive today.. Thank You God :)
         
            Love & Light!!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Real beauty comes from with in. . .

Designer Clothes, wonderful makeup, Branded shoes, people to appreciate your looks...

Yes all these make you look pretty & beautiful but they won’t make you feel beautiful.

Because the attributes of the beauty are love, kindness, faith, trust and honesty and a smile with a spark in your eyes makes you feel beautiful. 

As quoted by Kahlil Gibran “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart”…

Real beauty lies in a person whose heart is filled with these attributes. We all are blessed to see such a beautiful person in our life, who have kindness in her face, kindness in her eyes, kindness in her smile. She is none other than our beloved “Mother Teresa” 

She was one of the most intensely profiled celebrities of the last century, who was Born in Yugoslavia and was a shining light for Calcutta

She changed the world ... and she did indeed accomplish something beautiful for God 

She is the woman who conquered the hearts of people across the world and crossed the barriers of race, religion, creed, and nation

She made the world better place to live with her kindness and love

Today her Missionaries of Charity houses are found in 120 countries, on every one of the world’s populated continents, where 4,500 sisters (and brothers) are working.

What else could be termed as real beauty other than a kind heart which makes everything in its vicinity freshen into joys & smiles. 

Being beautiful is not having perfect looks but it is in the perfect thoughts and actions. Beauty lies deep in the heart and soul... Explore the real beauty within yourself

For me Real Beauty comes from whom we are, not how we look like.

I have written this post for " what does real beauty mean to you?" contest by Yahoo!India & Dove



Love,
Bharathi.